I've read on several forums how American woman get really upset because they feel betrayed by indian men. Honest conversation something I will discuss later. The Indian cultural is still very traditional in the eastern views that the parents will decide and arrange for a partner.
In fact I'm in something similiar with one exception...
First and foremost understand that the parents have a large influence on the individuals. Ask the hard questions of whether this is just an affair that will never progress into marriage.
Finally the goy goes to India and comes back married.That way you have the facts up front and can make an informed decision.If you choose to enter into a relationship with no marriage in the future, then understand you will probably not be introduced to his friends and family.The only event that will cause us to end the relationship will be the forcing of an arranged marriage that his parents are working on and have been for several years.Its a very complicated and drawn out process that is undertaken and both the boys and girls are involved.