Ah the outgoing introvert - the most complex and satisfying of all puzzles. Just read and get to know what you're getting yourself into before dating us, okay? Outgoing introverts, though still introverts at their core, often need to recharge after a large use of social energy.We have mad layers of depth and feelings…like an onion. After a long day of dealing with people, our social batteries are drained and we need to unwind and recover, usually alone.Be willing to go somewhere authentic where we won’t have to awkwardly sit across from each other asking the typical "get to know you" questions. But for real, we often have a keen eye for detail, noticing things that may escape others around us.Okay here's the thing, when we inevitably have to interact with people, we make it seem like there’s nothing in the world we'd rather be doing. that the brain of an introvert weighs internal cues more strongly than external motivational and reward cues.We have spectrums of introversion, so we’re good listeners. If we vibe with the crowd, we can get our energy from human interactions. But it’s not because we dislike people - it's actually the opposite.We’ll always be naturally in tune with how you’re feeling, so we’ll be able to see through any front you put up and make you jump into the deep end. We tend not to outwardly express our feelings and spill our whole life story in the first hour of meeting you. But if we don’t, we’ll start to get really introspective and reflective, and tend to withdraw into ourselves. We dislike the barriers like small talk (which often comes with going out) creates between people, and try to avoid it at all costs.
You’ll be surprised how much we actually live in our heads.People often confuse us for extroverts, but we're too introspective and over-think too much to be one.We don’t waste our time with people we’re not completely crazy about.If we agreed to go on a date with you, we like you. Some days we can talk for hours, but sometimes we’re not so good at replying and talking on the phone.Maybe it’s 'cause we hate small talk or something.
Over-thinking is like a part of us so at times we enjoy a break from our heads.